Investing in Your Marriage

Here are some practical, tangible ways that couples can invest in their marriage.

Daily - RINGS Chat or some regular time of connection

• REAL - "I am feeling . . ." (physically, emotionally and/or spiritually)
• INFORMATION/INTENTIONS - "My plans for today/this week are . . ."
• NEEDS - "What I need from you is . . ." (continue/start/stop doing)
• GRATEFUL - "I am thankful for . . ."
• SOME DAY - "Some day I would enjoy . . ."

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Weekly - At least three small "deposits"

• Picture filling up your partner's "love tank"
• Could be with Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Gifts, Quality Time, Physical Touch
• "What have you done for your marriage today?"

Monthly - A special date with your partner

• Use 10 Great Dates by Dave and Claudia Arp as a resource.
• Eliminate distractions to focusing primarily upon your marriage.

Quarterly - Date with older/younger couple

• If you have been married less than 15 years, connect with older, seasoned couple
• If you have been married more than 15 years, connect with younger, teachable couple

Annually - Take the Couple Checkup

• Online inventory assessment that reveals strengths, growth areas
• Summary report with graphs, suggestions, resources
• Regular fee $35.00 (discount fee available during Marriage Week USA; the week of Valentine's Day).

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